The majority of people in the US are pulled into living on credit straight out of school. You get a student loan, then a car loan, then a credit card, then a mortgage. You finance vacations, appliances, kitchen remodels, smartphones - mostly to keep up with friends and coworkers who finance their lifestyles too. A lot of people are in non-stop debt from the age of 18 to 55, if not longer.
I agree that debt can be useful and that being too risk-averse limits your possibilities in ways that extend beyond personal finance. But I don't have any friends in tech who need to be told "hey dude, you should be spending more". I have quite a few friends who'd would be better off spending less.
I was so frugal that I didn't refinance my (admittedly already low) interest rate during Covid because "we were planning on selling the house in a year or so". Oh well :)
Agree wholeheartedly but I worry some will read this and go all in the opposite. The key point is that humility helps make you free. Couple that with not being a slave to frugality and you can live without as much guilt and without a much restraint.
I agree that debt can be useful and that being too risk-averse limits your possibilities in ways that extend beyond personal finance. But I don't have any friends in tech who need to be told "hey dude, you should be spending more". I have quite a few friends who'd would be better off spending less.